Tuesday, October 14, 2014

1O SIGNS TO KNOW IT'S TIME TO MOVE ON...#BADRELATIONSHIP....

Let me start off by saying that no relationship is perfect. They all have ups & downs. Sometimes we get stuck on a "relationship roller coaster" and just don't know how or when to get off. Never allow someone to break you down to nothing. Stand up for yourself and leave that scumbag in the dust! Gracie Love Strategies has put together a list for those that are torn between being a Ride or Die chick (or dude) or a Fool that's riding on "The Road of No Return". The Road of No Return is the road that your no good mate sends you riding down when you have gone over & beyond for them, kissed their a**, accepted all kinds of disrespectful behavior and mannerisms, bent over backwards, went all out for and none of it was good enough. All of it was a waste of time because your mate still does not want you. Once you arrive to this intersection you may as well kiss your relationship goodbye. Your mate will Never take you seriously and will either continue to dog you or eventually leave you. This is tough talk but, Gracie prides herself in getting her readers in "fighting shape" for their relationships. Check out these signs, and if any sound familiar then you know it's time to GET TO STEPPIN!!
                                 10 SIGNS TO KNOW ITS TIME TO MOVE ON






***WHEN HE NEVER CALLS YOU- The only time you talk to him on the phone is when you call him and it's a rushed conversation cut short.
***WHEN HE DOESN'T MAKE or KEEP PLANS WITH YOU- If you suggest an outing and he always comes back with, "We'll see" or "I'll let you know", but never follows through.
***HE ONLY SEXTS YOU PERIOD- He only texts you when he's sexting and he never responds to any of your texts if they are not sexual.
***HE CONSTANTLY PUTS YOU DOWN OR DISREPECTS YOU- Calling you bad names, embarrassing you in front of friends and family. Talks harshly to you.
***YOU HEAR THROUGH THE GRAPEVINE THAT SHE'S DATING OTHER MEN OR HAS MOVED ON- You didn't get the memo, but your best friend saw her at the mall holding hands with her "play brother".
***WHEN THE PROS NO LONGER OUTWEIGH THE CONS- When you find yourself more unhappy, frustrated and sad with her in your life than without her.
***WHEN YOU KEEP WAITING FOR THINGS TO CHANGE-  Months turn into years with no change in sight.


***WHEN YOU ACTUALLY START BELIEVING THE LIES YOU KNOW SHE'S TELLING- You start making excuses for her actions.
***WHEN YOU START LOVING HIM MORE THAN YOU LOVE YOURSELF- Always putting his feelings and needs before your own. Not expressing your true feelings for fear of losing him.
***WHEN YOU'VE BEEN DATING FOR YEARS BUT YOU'RE STILL WONDERING HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU 




These are signs that you (men & women)  should keep in mind when deciding if you should leave or stick around for the long haul. All relationships face tough times sooner or later, but you need to know when your mate is crossing the line. If these signs are a mainstay in your relationship, please recognize that there is a problem. Don't allow a troubled relationship to strip you of your self esteem and joy. Don't be afraid to let go to make room for something better to come into your life. If you want to know the first step in walking away; it's simple. JUST PRAY! Prayer changes things. Prayer helps you get through things that you cannot do alone. Take one day at a time. It may not happen over night, especially when you are extremely attached to someone. Constantly repeat to yourself, "I AM AN AWESOME PERSON AND I DERSERVE BETTER"! Even if you don't believe it at first, eventually you will. You will begin to feel stronger and then that day will come when you will tell your mate: ADIOS AMIGO!! For more info. on love & relationships, stay tuned in to GLS.












 













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