The After the Commitment Series is geared to help men keep the good times rolling in their relationship or to revitalize a sagging relationship. A commitment can mean marriage or a couple that are exclusive. In Part One we learned Lesson #1: IN ORDER TO KEEP YOUR WOMAN CRAVING YOU; GIVE HER THE ATTENTION THAT SHE NEEDS.(see "WANNA KEEP YOUR WOMAN BEGGING YOU FOR MORE OF YOU Part One 10-22-2014) Now let's move on to Lesson #2.
People change. It's just that simple. No one person stays exactly the same forever. This is true for both men and women. They both grow and evolve with each day and each experience. If a couple does not grow together, they will definitely grow apart. The key to a man staying in tune with his woman to grow and evolve with her is to (drum roll) LISTEN TO HER!! Now fellas, when I say listen to her I know some of you are saying to yourselves, "Hell, I listen to her all of the time" or "When in the hell does she ever shut up?" But what you have to realize is it's a difference between "hearing" her talk to you and "listening" to what she's saying when she is talking to you. Yes, it is a HUGE difference.
Hearing= senseless chatter & listening= comprehending thoughts. Please know that if you truly listen to your woman she will tell you EVERYTHING that you need to know to please her. She will leave you no guesswork. Just think about it, when you first hooked up with your girl you listened to any and everything that came out of her mouth. You didn't skip a beat. You were listening so intently to her because you wanted something from her. You were interested in her and you needed to know her likes, her dislikes and everything in between. Your goal was to win her over. How would you know how to please her had you not listened to her from Jump street? You would've never made it to first base. Ok, now you've won her over and you have the trophy to show for it (a warm soft body laying next to you). Then all of a sudden it happens. One complaint turns into two and two complaints turn into three and next thing you know she has a grocery list of complaints. Why? It's because you aren't LISTENING to her anymore to know what pleases her. Doesn't it make sense to listen to her like you did in the beginning so that you will know how to continue to make her happy? Remember people change. Thoughts and desires change, so as your woman is evolving and growing, you are no longer in the mix. You think to yourself, "I don't know what she's complaining about, I go to work to pay bills, what else does she want from me?" The thing is, women are supporting themselves now a days, they are no longer waiting on the man to take care of them. That's not what she needs. In this case, the man is worried about the wrong thing. However, he has no idea about it because he is no longer taking his time to LISTEN to his woman.. Guys, if you want your woman to not be able to get enough of you, trust me, lend her an ear. When a man listens to a woman he shows her a sign of respect. He is silently telling her that what she is saying is valuable to him, therefore, SHE is valuable to him. Every woman needs to feel important to her man. When a woman feels important to her man, it makes her feel alive and sexy. So, let's recap, "WANNA KEEP YOUR WOMAN BEGGING YOU FOR MORE OF YOU?" Practice LESSON #2: LISTEN TO YOUR WOMAN SO YOU CAN STAY UPDATED ON HER WANTS,GOALS,DREAMS & DESIRES. She will appreciate you in ways that you could never imagine. For more info on love & relationships stay tuned in to GLS
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