Ok fellas, that title is an eye catcher. I know you are wondering if it's really possible for you to be so irresistible to your woman that she will be begging you for more of you? The answer to that question is ABSOLUTELY! Yes, it is possible for you to keep your woman's attention stayed on you, but you have to be willing to do the work. It's not as hard as you think. Listen closely while Gracie explains to you how it's done.
You've finally found "THE ONE". She's smart, sexy and great with children. She's a hard worker and attends church on Sundays. Your family loves her and your friends thinks she's cool. She's a savage between the sheets and she even gives you He** when you want it. BOY OH BOY she is a keeper. You've worked really hard to impress her. Breakfast, lunch and dinner dates, walks in the park, weekend trips and outings with her family. It all paid off because she is finally yours. Yes, you won the prize, but how do you keep the sparks alive?
You won the prize (your woman) because of all the wonderful experiences and fun times that you shared with her. She fell in love with you during those times, so doesn't it make sense that to KEEP her in love with you, you need to continue to do the things you were doing when she first fell in love?
Guys, please don't misunderstand this statement. Women are not fools, they understand the ups and downs of life. She knows that money gets tight sometimes or at times you may have to work late. She realizes that even her Superman (you) gets tired and needs rest. She even accepts the fact that she has to share you with other family members, friends, children and obligations. This DOES NOT bother her. What breaks her heart is when you place and leave her on the back burner to forget about her. Instead of being the priority that she once was, she is now an afterthought. You make excuses in your mind such as, "She'll understand" or "She knows I love her". If she starts complaining about your lack of attention you begin with another line of thought assaults like, "She ought to be grateful" or "If she doesn't understand me or what I'm trying to do for us, it's just too damn bad". These kind of thoughts breed resentment. You resent her because she is complaining and she resents you because you no longer give her the attention that she needs from you. This can be avoided by you making sure that your woman feels she is the most important part of your life. PLEASE DON'T TAKE THIS LIGHTLY. No, this isn't about kissing her a**, it's just about balancing your priorities and time. You may not be able to do all of those things that you were able to do in the beginning when she fell in love with you, but if you express to her that you would do those things if you could, most likely she will understand. It's always the SINCERE thought that counts with women. She needs your attention like in the beginning when you gave it to her freely. THIS IS WHAT MADE HER FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, not the flowers, gifts or dates (although they didn't hurt. lol) The problem happens when a man commits to a woman, then places her to the side to forget about her. The flow of love that she gives you will be blocked by this. You may have heard a friend say, "Before we got married my wife used to cook, clean and sex me down, now she only cooks and cleans sometimes and I have to wait weeks for sex". This does not have to be your relationship, especially if you practice the pointers that Gracie gives you. The truth is, a relationship takes work, but will be very rewarding if you put in the time and effort. Let's recap:
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