KEEP THE FUN OF SEX ALIVE BY DOING THIS......

A male client came in to see me telling me that his girlfriend didn't want to engage in rough sex with  him nor did she want to give him oral sex. I  asked him if they've ever had rough sex and if she ever  performed oral sex with him.  He said that they started off having enjoyable rough sex and yes  she did oblige him with oral sex quite frequently. I asked him what is her issue and he said that she  complains that the rough sex hurts now and his semen is too bitter to the taste because of his excessive  alcohol consumption.  He admitted to being a heavy drinker. BAM!
 
 I explained to my client that for women, sex starts in the brain. Women are sexually attracted to  men's outer appearance & physique, yes but to keep the attraction alive her man must create a  sensuous atmosphere whenever he is around her. I can hear men shouting now saying,"Oh boy who has time for all of  that"! No worries, it's not as difficult as it sounds. It could be that he washes the dishes for her or rubs her feet after a long day. He may even paint her toenails for her. YES! painting her toenails can be a sensuous event. (hey do you want oral sex or not) Anyway, most importantly, it involves listening to the things that she says are important to her such as, "Babe, I  don't like it when you drink too much".

My client says that he tries to make his girlfriend happy by paying all of the bills. Paying all of the bills are wonderful but what she actually asked of him is to control his drinking. This is what would truly make her happy and more sexually attracted to him. In this instance he is over looking what she is asking of him and giving her something else that "he feels" will make her happy, however should he honor her request of him, she will be more sexually attracted to him, then she'll probably be more agreeable to oral & and even a little rough sex from time to time. See where I'm going with this? Sex is a give and take activity. It doesn't always start in the bedroom. COMMUNICATE to one another what's important & what are deal breakers. LISTEN to each other's requests. Honor them to help ensure each others attraction. When you do these things, you are almost guaranteed success....Good sex....Good love.... For more info on love & sex stayed tuned to GLS
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