In Part Two we learned that when a woman possesses CONFIDENCE, she is indeed SEXY. We learned that men are attracted to confident-sexy woman. We learned that men judge women from the FIRST moment they lay eyes on her. They place her in categories without getting a chance to get to know her. The categories are CLASSY vs. TRASHY, WELL MAINTAINED vs. UNKEMPT and INTELLIGENT vs. IGNORANT. REMEMBER, THESE CLASSIFICATIONS ARE GIVEN TO WOMEN THE MOMENT MEN SEE US. THEY DO NOT KNOW US, but they judge us almost immediately. It is unfair, but this is how men view us. Let's start by taking a look at TRASHY vs. CLASSY:
CLASSY to men is when you dress cleverly enough to entice him while allowing his imagination to
wander and run wild. You show a hint of cleavage or if your blouse is see thru you wear the proper undergarment. If you're rocking a mini skirt, you make sure it's not too micro so if a strong wind whips up or if you're climbing a flight of stairs you won't have to be self conscious about giving the people around you a peep show. You may sport some mini shorts to show off your gorgeous legs, but your booty is still well covered. Lastly, if you throw on a pair of jeans they will be stylish & fashionable with a great fit. The only thing that may be seen when you take a seat is the sexy small of your back (not backside or Victoria Secret thong).
TRASHY to men is when you dress so scantily that it leaves little to the imagination. You show so much cleavage that one false move and there goes your nipple popping out. Your mini skirt is so short that you pray not to drop anything because if you do, everyone around you will know if you
have a Bald eagle or a Runway strip wax job. Your shorts are straight out of The Dukes of Hazard TV series. They are so short that they look like denim panties. News Flash: If your butt cheeks are hanging out the bottom of you're shorts; THEY ARE TOO SHORT. Lastly,Your jeans are super low rise so when you take a seat, the folks behind you yell "crack kills" but you're not attending an anti-drug rally you are attending Sunday morning church service.
I know what you're thinking, "That ain't what men be thinking", but oh yes it is, and how do I know?
I know simply because I asked them. Remember they are judging you to place you in a category for whether you're relationship material or if you look like a good time. When men judge you as short term, their focus is not "I think she'd make a good girlfriend", it turns in to, "I wonder how fast I can
smash (Do it, screw, fu#%) you know what I mean. Men say that when a woman dresses like this she is trying too hard to get attention. That is a turn off for men unless they are looking to take somebody home for the night. This is fine if you're looking for the same thing or if that is your line of work but if you are looking for a real relationship, just Beware. Please stay tuned in to GLS for Section 2 of Part 3 which talks about Well Maintained vs. Unkempt. For more info. on Love*Sex*Relationships stay tuned in to GLS. TO BE CONTINUED...
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