We covered CLASSY vs. TRASHY so now we are continuing on to WELL MAINTAINED vs. UNKEMPT then we will top it off with INTELLIGENT vs. IGNORANT. Again, these are examples of how men view women when they first see and meet us. Let's move on to WELL MAINTAINED & UNKEMPT. Unkempt means bummy or hood ratish.. Ok, moving along:
WELL MAINTAINED to a man is when your hair and your nails look nice. You are dressed neatly and smell fresh and clean. It means that when you walk by him, your scent reminds him of flowers, fruits or inviting spices. Your hair is neatly in place and this includes afros and dredlocks as well. If you're having a bad hair day you opt for a neat ponytail, a cute hat, sun visor or scarf. If you wear a scarf, it's tastefully tied in an eccentric knot. If you wear hair color, its a soothing shade. Your fingernails are manicured whether real or tips. If you wear polish, the polish looks fresh
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UNKEMPT OR BUMMY or a.k.a. Hood-ratish to a man is when your weave looks like a bird built a nest in it, or HELP CALL 911 cause you just got electrocuted. Your afro looks like dredlocks and your dredlocks look like an afro because you have super new growth. You're not wearing a fashionable scarf, you're wearing a bandana so local gang members keep asking you "what set you claimin" or you look like you should be on the cover of a pancake box. I won't even mention those bonnets made for sleepy time. While you believe yours is cute, men hate them. The color of your hair looks like you tripped and fell inside a Crayola box. Then you walk by a man switching hard to make your booty clap but you smell like last night's Red Lobster. You haven't gotten a fill in since last Christmas so in another week your tips look like they will fall off all by themselves. Your polish is chipped and you have between 2-3 broken nails on each hand. Your toes look like Hammer Time" and your heels look like you've been kicking flour. You may think, "I'm just going to run up to Walmart to grab some dish liquid". So you run out of the house with your pajamas and sleepy time bonnet on, Right? WRONG! GIRL YOU ARE OUT OF ORDER! You only have ONE time to make a FIRST impression so you may as well make a good one. Mr. Right could be in the produce aisle waiting to meet you so you wanna look your best at all times. I'm not saying that you have to walk around with a prom dress and corsage on but dress your best for wherever the situation calls for. Remember that men are judging us from the moment they lay eyes on us. You don't want the first time Mr. Right spots you is that one day that you decide to run out the house with your doorag and Hello Kitty house shoes on. Trust me, his first thought will be "hoodrat". These are examples of the harsh reality of how men view us. Once again, I can hear you yelling, "That ain't what men be thinking" but here I go again to tell you that yes they do and I know because I asked them. Please stay tuned to GLS for Section 3 of Part 3 of Meeting Men from the Quick Survival Kit Series for Today's Relationships. Then we will examine INTELLIGENT vs. IGNORANT. Don't worry, there is a light at the end of the tunnel with the Two out of Three Rule. We will cover that after we discuss Intelligent vs. Ignorant. For more info. on Meeting men and dating, stay tuned in to GLS.
TO BE CONTINUED Section 3 of Part 3 of Meeting Men will be continued Friday. If you have any questions or need some advice please feel free to post or message me on Facebook.
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