In Part One we learned that men are visual creatures and women must pique their imagination in order to create an attraction. We also learned that we don't have to be movie stars or models to accomplish this. We learned that all women are beautiful and all of us Can be sexy. Lastly, we learned that we must be cautious of the way we SHOWCASE ourselves. Ok, now let's move on to Part Two. Let's talk about SEXY. Some folks believe that sexy means you are exotic or a 36-24-36 brick house. Those things Can be sexy but they are Not necessities for sexiness. There is one word that comes to mind when someone mentions Sexy. That word is CONFIDENCE. Confidence equals Sexy and Sexy equals Confidence. They are almost interchangeable. Men are attracted to confidence thus men are attracted to confident women. You may not be the prettiest girl on Earth and you may not have the perfect body, but guess what? YOU ARE SEXY because you possess CONFIDENCE. You may not wear the hottest fashions and you may not drive the latest model car but guess what? YOU ARE SEXY because you possess CONFIDENCE. You may not earn a six figure income, hell you may be living from paycheck to paycheck but guess what? YOU ARE SEXY because you possess CONFIDENCE. Men are attracted to Confidence and confidence equals sexy. Now let's take a look at how we "showcase" ourselves. When men first see women they automatically place us in categories. They look at our appearance and judge if we're dressed Trashy or Classy. They look at our hair to check if it's neatly in place or if it's all over the place. They peek at our hands to see if our nails are nicely manicured or if we have broken nails or chipped polish. They also listen to our conversation and watch how we conduct ourselves. They listen for if we are intelligent-educated speaking or if we are ignorant-hoodrat sounding. They watch for whether we conduct ourselves as respectful ladies or if we handle ourselves like we belong on the payroll of a cat named Pretty Tony that sports a perm and a purple three piece suit driving a Fleetwood Cadillac with gold chains and rings on every finger of his smack-down pimp hand. All of this "First Impression" judging of women is rather unfair, but this is the cold reality of it. If you want to find out the difference between presenting yourself in a "trashy" vs. "classy manner or what hoodrat talk sounds like or even how to conduct yourself, stay tuned in to Part Three of Meeting Men in the Quick Survival Kit Series. If you have any questions about love or relationships for GLS please post them and they will be answered as quickly as possible.
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