7 WAYS TO CREATE AN EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT WITH A MAN... READ THIS

Want your relationship to have a fairy tale ending? Wouldn't you love for your man to adore you? How about enjoy your company? What if your relationship became the envy of all of your friends? Could this be possible? The answer is YES!!! The key to having a lasting loving relationship is the EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT that you share with your man. An emotional attachment is the glue that holds a relationship together. This reaches far beyond physical attraction and sex. It has nothing to do with social or financial status. An emotional attachment is not something you can see, hear, smell or touch. It is something that you feel from the depths of your heart. It's a tug or pulling of the heart that draws a woman to a man. Aren't you tired of being the one that's pulling your relationship over the finish line? Do yourself a favor, level the playing field by allowing your guy to develop an emotional attachment with you. When an emotional attachment is present in your relationship you will find your man striving for the same happiness that you hope to achieve.
Let's discuss ways to develop a closer and more loving relationship.
                     7 WAYS TO CREATE AN EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT WITH A MAN
***LOVE YOURSELF- This one seems like a no brainer because we all know that if we don't love ourselves, it's difficult for anyone else to. Loving yourself is more than just saying, "I love me". It's actually being kind to yourself. When you really love yourself, you give off a confident vibe which is sexy and attractive. When you love yourself it makes it easy for someone else to love you because you are lovable. It also allows you to open up to be "real" in the presence of a man, therefore he is getting the real you, the whole you  and nothing but you. I'm not talking about hair and nails; that's superficial. I'm talking about your real personality. That's what's important. That's what counts.
***MAKE YOUR STANDARDS KNOWN- Let the standards that you set up for yourself be known. Men like a woman with standards. You don't have to whip out a 10 COMMANDMENT tablet with demands, but during the course of conversations you do want to tell him your hopes, dreams, goals and deal breakers. These equal your Standards. Make mention what you are looking for if you ever meet the "right" guy.

***DO NOT APPEAR DESPERATE- Men claim to be able to spot a desperate woman from a mile away. Anybody that appears desperate either male or female is a turn off. Be cautious of your choice of words because men will take those words to have a totally different meaning. If you say, "I love your muscles", what he hears is, "I wanna rub my hands up and down your naked body". I know this sounds extreme, but trust me, it doesn't take much for a man to think that a woman is on his jock, which equals: She's DESPERATE so RUN!! A better choice of words would be, "You look like you're in great shape". He will be grateful for the compliment and will proceed to give you some fitness tips, which could even lead to another date #the gym or a walk in the park.

***HOLD OFF ON THE SEX- If it's not too late, do yourself a favor and hold off on the sex, especially if he hasn't  gotten to really know you. If he doesn't really know you he can't possibly have created an emotional bond with you. I understand that hormones and attraction are running high, but when you start having sex with a man it clouds your judgment. You could become extra sensitive about every little thing which could put a damper on a budding relationship. He becomes really laid back and goes into chill mode. You're suddenly angry because he didn't mention that he was hanging out with his boys while you sat at home waiting by the phone for him to call or text you. If you're not sleeping with him, this type of situation is kept in perspective.

***HAVE FUN- Enjoy yourself. Laugh. Crack jokes. Nobody wants to hang out with a dud. Let your hair down. Show off your goofy side. It's attractive.

***TREAT HIM AS A FRIEND- When you are just friends it takes the edge off of dating. You let your guard down and are free to be whoever you are. This gives him a signal that he can relax as well. It's no pressure to impress each other. You know how much fun you can have with your girlfriends, right? Well, you want to have that same good time with him. Just like any other fun activity; you can't wait to get back to it. Translation: he'll be excited to see you again.

***BE FEMININE- Femininity is a gift! A lot of women are not aware of it's energy. It is a woman's power source. It stands alone. It separates women from men. It is our "Umph" as women. It gives us our edge. There is no man alive that can guard against it. It is their Cryptonite! Why do you think some gay men copy it to the 10th power? Have you ever seen a flaming gay man? He is always the most feminine person in the room. He takes women's natural gift and makes it his own. Even he knows that this is the main power in attracting men. Femininity is sugar & spice and everything  nice. Use it to your advantage. It is your natural born right as a woman.

These are some steps to building an emotional bond. If you are already in a relationship you can tweak the steps to fit your circumstance. It is never too late to makeover your relationship to strengthen your bond. If you are already cozy in a relationship, be careful not to constantly complain or nag. Those are like what RAID bug spray does to bugs to men's attraction. Try to encourage your guy in a loving and supportive way. Tell him that you appreciate the things that he does for you. Be specific. This will perk him up and make him not only want to be around you, but will also make him want to do even more nice things for you. For more info on emotional attachment in relationships, stay tuned in to GLS