Wednesday, September 3, 2014

QUICK SURVIVAL KIT SERIES...PART 5... MEETING MEN... Where to meet men....

We've already discussed how to look, speak and act when meeting men. Now let's talk about where to FIND THEM. Some people say that there are a shortage of good men. Some say that a lot of would be eligible men are incarcerated or gay. Others even joke that the only available men are married. A lot of ladies say the "pickings" are slim nowadays when it comes to finding a good man, but I beg to differ.


Have you ever heard of the saying, "You can't keep doing the same things expecting to get different results. You have to change the things you're doing to get different results". We could utilize this
cliché in regards to where to meet men. If you keep going to the same bars & clubs, and can't meet any good men there, then go hang out at other bars & clubs. Try different types of music and cuisine. Try a Cigar bar or a Hookah lounge if you don't mind the smoke. Try a Spoken word joint if you like poetry. Try a Salsa club if you like to dance.


If you've been going to the same church because your grandmother is one of the founding members of the Missionary Board, your grandfather is the head Senior Deacon,  your mom sings in the choir, and your uncle drives the church bus, but there are NO eligible men in attendance, it is nothing wrong with visiting another congregation. Go to a neighboring church's revival or grab your girlfriend to enjoy a gospel concert at a visiting church. Check out Bible class with another parish.
It's not going to cost you your right hand of fellowship at your home church. Remember, we never know where Mr. Right will be.
-Go on exciting vacations with your girlfriends...Men like vacationing too
-Go to Home Depot to take a home improvement class (they are cheap or free)...Men like to fix things
-Go to the auto parts store to pickup a new car freshener...Men work on cars
-Walk your dog on a high traffic street...You will be surprised at how men will pull over to meet you
-Go to an intermural sports event for males of your age range. Basketball,Football, Soccer, Softball.
...Men love playing sports and competing against each other
-Go to a restaurant on game night and sit at the bar...Men love to gather to watch college or
professional sports on TV
-Walk around the Casino and check out the hottest games. If gambling is not your bag, take a seat at the bar to watch the live band perform or stroll around to cheer for other gamers....Men love high stakes


Ladies, the most important tip to remember when attracting men is to smile...smile...smile..
When you smile you are letting a man know that you are approachable. You instantly catch a man's attention when you smile. You will be surprised at the attention you will receive just from smiling. Stay tuned in to GLS for info.
                                                                                                           

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